This # calls my new unlisted/unpublished # 8-10 times a day and I'm getting sick of it.  The reason I got an unlisted number was so I wouldn't get so many unwanted calls.

In the age of computerized calling systems, unlisted numbers have little to no impact on the number of unwanted calls. All an unlisted number means is that your name and number are not listed in public directories. It is also likely that your new number is someone else's old number unless you specifically requested an unused number.