I have also been completely by this same man and I was stupid enough to wire him money to ghana. We have spoken and emailed for several weeks and I was completely won over and sure that he loved me. He goes by the name Gary Smith with a phone number in Napa, CA. At this time he is supposedly in jail at the airport in Amsterdam. Like there are cells in the airpor. He was caught with 2.4 million dollars worth of gold bars in his luggage that he was bringing to surprise me. I was surprised all right. I have finally accepted that he has been completely scamming me, but I have not played my hand yet. He is begging me now for 1k to be able to get a license to bring the gold to the US and to me so we could start our life together. Wow! Do I feel completely naive and totally stupid. Dont let this happen to you.