Yes, I too, was in contact with John Bogamil Copeland through Match.com last year. Sent me the long flowery email with the story of his wife's heart attack, his maritime job, etc. etc. and also many photos and a link to the maritime company. We spoke on the phone (he had an accent) and he said he was in the process of quitting the shipping bz and opening a business in California. During the conversation I questioned whether he had two homes (one here in CA and one in Jersey) and he seemed perturbed that I questioned him and that he didn't doubt what I had to say. He said he would be in CA for good in a month or two and we would get to meet. I never heard from him again.