They will extort you of money if you have been on POF.

Said I was messaging his under age daughter and I called him out and he told me to blank myself was mad I figured out it was a scam

Under Age Girl/ Under Age Boy Scam

Yes it is an extortion scam being run on or by that site as well as OKCupid, both of which I l learned are owned by Match.com that has a sketchy history itself.  There are numerous number threads here with the same story.  Make a police report to your local PD.  If the calls come from South Carolina, which seems to be popular with these extortionists, make a report there as well.

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http://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/chatting-wi ... pof-887602.html
http://www.thedailyscam.com/underage-girl-sext-scam/

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