May 23, 2009
I fell for this guy's scam a year ago, for a sublet in Boston (that turned out not to exist). I live in Chicago, and when I reported this to the police, they just laughed and said "How are we supposed to track somebody in Boston?" even though the guy is in Chicago. After getting scammed, you might think the legal system is on your side, but to be honest, the Chicago police are pretty ambivalent about actually helping and it's virtually impossible to track this guy down for any real court processing (the filing fees would be more than what you lose-- so just try to avoid the scam in the first place!)
A year ago, this guy used Bank of America and lived on Grace street in Chicago; Same phone number. I actually met him in person to hand him the check (ha, huge mistake, though it was on a busy street corner), and the person I met was about 6 feet, white, 200lb+ with brown hair. Definitely gay. Late 20s to mid 30s. His craigslist ad did NOT have pictures, and when contacted, he emailed two small jpgs (pics that you'd think someone just copied from an online website), one of a bedroom with a low bed (light wood, white sheets) and one of a living room (with a very small silver flatscreen TV and a couch facing). Best way to avoid his scam? Ask for more photos, look up the apartment on google maps and call the management company. If there is no management company, or they don't know who this guy is, it's not just a "misunderstanding" but rather a scam. Also, when confronted, this guy has been known to pretend that the condo/apt/whatever exists until the end, or have one of his alter egos call/contact you and say that he has fallen ill or has been in an accident. He also claimed that the negative reviews of him online were from someone who tried to back out at the last second and was just trying to make him look bad. He's also pretty good at cyber-censoring honest reviews of him. Kind of amazing how little morality runs through this guy's veins.
Anyway, live and let live. This obviously still gets me seriously peeved. Sincere sympathy if you've already been scammed, but hopefully others find this page before they fall for it! Or, better it, get the police/FBI involved while this person is still trackable...