This man is a total scam artist. He tried picking me up on a site called "sugardaddyforme.com". To make a long story short......this man is going threw a divorse, is 49 years old and has a fedish for underage blonde girls from what he said because [removed:lang] ( seriously ), He claims to have allot of money and will help out a girl in need but then I felt something is wrong when I asked him to prove it and he did not answer the question and then all of a sudde said " I can't believe how beautiful you are, you're the love of my life ....do you believe in love at first sight? "

BEWARE !!!!!!!!   this man goes under the names Rusty Roth on yahoo messenger and Skiflyer007 on Sugardaddyforme.com

This man is a real freak and a total lier.....sad thing is that he has three kids too. BEWARE and if you incounter this guy STAY AWAY

just an update.......this guy is on a few Major sugar daddy sites so if anyone incounters this man just know he is a SCAM and is not real. I really don't want anyone else to be used and hurt by this man.

I hope this messege reaches you guys before its to late.

Thank you guys so much!! I was on sugardaddy and he messaged me. I always google people on there just to be safe and found this site. You guys helped stop me from making a HUGE mistake. I love you girls, thank you so so very much, I can't even express how much.

I was wondering if any of you ladies could tell me about your sugardaddy experiences as I have never had one.  Im concerned in regards to safety.  What to expect? What my expectations should be, etc..
Thank you.

Jody, not a "lady" responding, but you're asking a good question.  I am a guy on the sugardaddyforme site and I am constantly amazed at some of the women I talk to, who have done some really unsafe things.  First, never agree to travel to the man for the first meeting, whether it's 50 miles away or across the country, whether he promises to pay for the trip or not.  A legitimate guy with money will have no problem travelling to you for at least the first meeting, if he is genuinely interested.  Meet inside a public place  (restaurant, coffee shop, whatever) not outside, not at his house, hotel, etc.  Last minute phone calls or texts asking you to meet him at the corner, in the parking lot, etc are a sign of trouble.

Finally, no legitimate guy who is truly interested in you is going to insist that something "happen" between the two of you the first time you meet - that alone should be a red flag.  Take the time in between until your next meeting to learn more about him, where he works, Google him, etc.  If you can't verify him through one of those means, something is fishy - run.