Apr 3, 2011
ALL of you have your free voices to speak about Dean. BUT do you know his Soul? No, you don't. Do you know the truth of what he went through as a child? DO YOU KNOW THAT HE WAS RAPED AS A CHILD? Do you know that he was physically abused by his mother until he was 25yrs old? Well now you do. I am not a family member, I am not Lauren or any of them who enables Dean. I am a witness and true friend to Dean who prays for his rehabilitation, NOT any further abuse to him or anyone!!! I absolutely pray for all the people who he has hurt in his life.
I truly believe that men are less capable of healing themselves than women are, that their hearts will shut down much earlier in life with a smaller chance of recovering/healing due to sexual, emotional, physical abuse, than women survive/overcome/heal. I've know Dean for a very long time, longer than all of you, and he comes from a very long family history legacy of lies, abuse, and alcoholism. It's all he knows. He was abandoned and sent to boarding school at a young age, and he hated his mother for abandoning him as he was the youngest of 6 children, and she just didn't want to deal with him. So she wrote a check for his boarding school and showed him love through money. That's all he knows...and he's still standing there stuck emotionally at 5 years old crying for his mother. These are the psychological FACTS folks of what turned him into a sociopath. Complete abandonment and disconnect. THIS does not excuse him from what harm and hurt he has consequently done to others, stemming directly from his own endured abuse as a child. But KNOW and understand there is a deeper root to ALL of this, and All of you, including the justice system, are such a conditioned and UNEVOLVED society who just looks at the surface of the accused. So "CONVINCED", before you bestow such a horrid wish upon Dean to have a fist up his [***], may you visualize and FEEL Dean as an innocent child getting a fist up his [***]. And remember this: what you wish for others is what you wish for yourselves. So be VERY mindful of your thoughts as thoughts are energy, that always circles back to you. Read up on it: Law of Attraction and Law of Thoughts/Cause and Effect. And if ANY of you have a real heart of compassion, you will pray not only for the victim's Dean has hurt, but for also the family legacy bestowed upon Dean, and his deep healing/rehabilitation he needs as well.