Yeah, I had been suspicious of him from almost the very beginning. Today was the "honey can you help?" e-mail and I called the local law enforcement. They can't do anything! They can only stop this guy by getting reports from people who were actually scammed by him. Please, sunshine, report it to the IC3 (part of the FBI) http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx and get this guy locked up.

Oh, by the way, he was going by the name Dwayne Benson with me. But the same phone number, the same bridge in Singapore, etc.

He has been messaging me.  Everything I read sounds similar.  Any suggestions for getting rid of him?

i met him on match. he said he was leaving for singapore in a few days build a bridge, then began sending the personal letters as i am sure that many of you have received. then he said he would visit. a friend told me about 800 notes. i was shocked.  i wrote him a scathing e-mail and let him that i know what he has been doing to women. he did not reply.

He is still in business and apparently doing very well.  I met him on Match.com in late August and ex-changed e-mails until late Sept.  He is still using designing and building pedistrian bridge in Singapore and he loves me very much and wants a life together.  His parents both died in car wreck 9 years ago, his wife double crossed him with a friend and he has not been in relationship in several years.  He finally asked for money to pay for tools because the company picked them up and he could not finish his work without his tools and his funds are low since he paid for hotel and partial to workers.  Oh honey can you please help me out since I need to complete this and come to you as soon as this job is complete.  Silver tongue devil is  putting it mildly.  He really had me going but not enough that I sent him money.  A friend od mine years ago lost $35k to a scammer and it took her atty son to close her accounts to get her away from scammer.we texted and e-mailed as well as called each other. The number is 213-670-7234.